O esforçado e o objetivo « Agile Way


5 de Junho de 2012

O esforçado e o objetivo

Existem diversos esteriótipos no mercado de trabalho. Mas poucos são tão antagônicos quanto o esforçado e o objetivo.

O esforçado: aquele que trabalha, faz um drama e mesmo quando entrega resultado, tem que mostrar o quanto sofreu, o quanto penou para atingir o resultado. É aquela pessoa que geralmente acumula trabalho não por incompetência, mas para sempre mostrar que está atolado de tarefas, que não vai dar conta, que aquilo ali não é vida. Normalmente, quando bate as 18h, ele está suando de tanto “esforço”. E o pior: o mais importante para ele é a energia e a dedicação gasta no trabalho. Ele quer ser reconhecido por isto.

O objetivo: aquele que entrega o resultado. Você pergunta: “Foi difícil?”, e ele vai te dar uma resposta objetiva, sem contar as horas que ficou em cima, as noites que passou em claro, o desespero da última hora. Para ele, o que importa é entregar o resultado, no prazo e na qualidade esperada. Quando falamos em assertividade, falamos em pessoas como ele.

É impressionante como conseguimos identificar facilmente estes dois esteriótipos. Me lembro quando fiz uma daquelas seleções de vagas, onde participei daquelas dinâmicas de grupo (aliás, nada mais interessante para observar esteriótipos do que uma dinâmica de grupo). Fui na seleção de calça jeans. E não sabia que a empresa era toda formal. Durante a preleção, a facilitadora comentou na frente de todos que a empresa não aceitava “camiseta, calça jeans e outras roupas informais durante o período de trabalho”. Foi um golpe direto no meu estômago. Ao invés de ficar me desculpando, me foquei em atingir as metas da dinâmica. Obviamente é: se destacar, sem se destacar. Se é que você me entende.

Participei da dinâmica, fiz uma apresentação sobre o Scrum – quando foi solicitado para apresentarmos sobre um assunto e no fim das contas, acabei passando na seleção.  Não sou uma pessoa essencialmente objetiva, mas naquele dia acabei sendo o esteriótipo. Dei a volta por cima e entreguei o que eles esperavam. No fim das contas, não fui selecionado para a vaga, pois ainda existiam mais 4 etapas da seleção, com entrevistas. Fui até a penúltima. Pelo que vi da cultura da empresa, felizmente não deu certo 🙂

Naquele dia da dinâmica, como sempre há, havia o esteriótipo do “esforçado”. E como é engraçado ouvir ele contando sobre a sua vida profissional. Ele sempre acaba misturando profissional com o pessoal. Ele se esforçou durante a vida, estudou mesmo não tendo condições, mantem uma família feliz, com muito esforço, “graças a Deus”, enfim… praticamente era a “Preciosa” dando o depoimento de vida dele. Numa dinâmica de grupo. Para uma vaga de Analista de Projetos.

É o tipo de pessoa que já nessa parte da seleção é desclassificada. E ainda assim insiste em manter essa postura. O esforçado normalmente é um problema como colega de trabalho, pois ele está sempre desmotivado e chateado, pois os chefes nunca reconhecem o esforço que ele faz nas horas e minutos em que está no trabalho. Ele acaba puxando o ambiente de trabalho pra baixo.

Se reconheceu como algum dos dois? Se você é do tipo esforçado, a boa notícia é que há tempo para mudar. Não é preciso muito para deixar de fazer drama e começar a entregar resultados. O fato é que, quando você entrega resultados objetivos, as pessoas normalmente irão elogiar o seu esforço. Sem que você sequer cite a energia que gastou no trabalho. E, o melhor de tudo, sua mudança de postura vai afetar positivamente o ambiente de trabalho.

Quer um exemplo (fictício) mas que ilustra bem essa mudança?

Você possivelmente já assistiu “O Diabo veste Prada”. Se não assistiu, não tem problema. Basta saber que é a relação entre uma chefe extremamente exigente do mundo da moda com uma assistente que enxerga aquele trabalho como tampão e que não dá a mínima para moda. O conflito é óbvio. A assistente não aguenta mais se esforçar e não ser reconhecida. Então chegamos na cena mais legal do filme.

Assista a cena. E depois ao filme. Sim, sou um homem indicando “O Diabo veste Prada”. Mas vale a pena 🙂

 

 

E aí? Vamos começar a entregar resultados? 🙂



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